I really don't understand what the hell happened to my life recently. I went from struggling to win back love from Davar to being in the middle of a steadily growing group of men. It scares me because my body reacts, hell I react so immediately and deeply to these men.. and I really haven't been one to associate sexually with a lot of guys. It is more than that though.. I feel this.. connection growing between me and Lee, he makes me feel safe and wanted, and is someone who I trust.
I don't know if I am being carried away by this.. or if I am doing it more for Davar than myself.. but I know that it will continue to spiral until I set limitations for myself. When I talked to Chris and he bit me.. I just.. it was indescribable. Is it because he and Davar share parts of one another now? I don't know.. I want to talk to Gwyn more about it.. but something seems very off with her lately. She is reserved and quiet, seeming to regard her surrounding from outside of herself.
I may have to come to accept the fact that I jsut cannot be everything Davar needs from a lover. But by connecting to others and forming a circle around him.. a court of his as it were, he may find balance and solace in the people who are his lovers. I still feel selfish.. like I want him to myself.. and there are days I want him to cut me still.. but with these added players.. who knows how much more complicated things will get?